Venturing into uncharted territories of sexual exploration, certain chapters of my book series delve deeper into the realms of intimacy. From the enticing allure of Crystal Dildos in “Love is Crystal Clear” to the intricacies of the Pretzel position in “A Balancing Kind of Love,” I’ve always aimed to push boundaries and ignite curiosity. Now, as I embarked on the journey of writing “The Foundations of Love,” I stumbled upon a fascinating concept: Edging.
For those unfamiliar with the term, allow me to shed some light. Edging is a technique in which one teeters on the edge of orgasm, pausing stimulation just before reaching the peak, then resuming until the brink is approached again. This tantalizing practice has been around for decades, initially touted as a remedy for premature ejaculation. However, its benefits extend beyond delaying climax; it offers a profound insight into one’s arousal patterns and the intricate dance leading up to the pinnacle of pleasure.
Whether indulging in solo exploration or shared intimacy, edging promises an exhilarating voyage of self-discovery. Eager to explore this phenomenon firsthand, I embarked on a solo experiment armed with Lovehoney’s Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator*, a personal favourite renowned for its intense sensations. Little did I anticipate the sheer power of this device, even at its lowest setting. Within moments, I found myself on the precipice of ecstasy, the pulsating vibrations proving too potent to resist. Not only did I reach the edge, I fell off it all too quickly.
Undeterred by initial setbacks, I persisted in my quest for mastery over edging. Yet, despite my efforts, the Rose remained a formidable adversary, pushing me inexorably towards climax before I could fully embrace the nuances of the technique. Acknowledging the importance of trial and error in such endeavours, I remain undeterred, eagerly anticipating future experiments with a new toy featured in “The Foundations of Love.”
Stay tuned for an upcoming product review on the Mini Metallic Massage Wand Vibrator, as I navigate the intricate terrain of pleasure, one experiment at a time.